Friday, September 19, 2014

Everyone Poops: A Social Standard of Private Poop Practices

Like the educational children’s book states “everyone poops”. I poop. You poop. Everyone and their mother poops. But humans are not the only creatures who do. All living things from humans to cats to plants to single celled organisms perform, to some extent, a type of excretory function.  Excretion is a natural function in which the organism eliminates or expels metabolic waste matter. All life forms carry out this essential process, which, if disrupted, leads to the poisoning of the organism’s or cell’s body by toxic waste products. This poisoning of the body leads to the disruption of other bodily functions—in the case of animals, other organ functions—which could prove harmful to the body and potentially lead to the subject’s death. If “pooping”, as is the colloquial term used to reference to excretion, is so natural and so essential to life itself, why is it that we hold such a negative view of all things poop-related and show such negative reactions to any mention of it? Why is it that, despite having to perform this function to continue living a healthy life, we have such a strong aversion to mentioning it and display signs of disapproval when it is?

In many societies and cultures, poop, because it is waste excreted from the body—an unwanted substance— people perceive the process as something dirty and unrefined; one that is done in privacy and never talked about so as to not taint conversation with so-called “dirty talk”. In my own family, whenever the topic comes up, even jokingly, at the dinner table, it is soon quelled. Among friends, it is a brave (although sometimes vulgar) man that blatantly admits to having to poop, rather than simply excusing himself to go the bathroom. In other cultures, the aversion to poop stems even to poop-related objects; the left hand, in some cultures, is solely designated to attend to bathroom activities and thus to use the left hand rather than the “clean” right hand to greet another is a great sign of disrespect and lack of refinement. In an article written by Horace Miner for the American Anthropologist titled ”Body Ritual Among the Nacirema”, Miner presents the ritual  practices of a small North American tribe known as the Nacirema. “The fundamental belief,” Miner states:
Underlying the whole system appears to be that the human body is ugly and that its natural tendency is to debility and disease. Incarcerated in such a body, man's only hope is to avert these characteristics through the use of ritual and ceremony. Every household has one or more shrines devoted to this purpose… While each family has at least one such shrine, the rituals associated with it are not family ceremonies but are private and secret. The rites are normally only discussed with children, and then only during the period when they are being initiated into these mysteries. (1)

         While these ritual practices of this so-called Nacirema tribe may seem to be mysterious, strange, and unfamiliar, in fact the practices that Miner writes about are a reflection of modern-day American bathroom practice; with “Nacirema” a backwards spelling of “American”, the ritual shrine referring to the concept of a private bathroom, and the rites and practices taught to children is their so-called “potty training”. In Miner’s description of bathroom practices, he deems these behaviors as “private and secret”, and indeed American and modern-day perceptions of such practices are centered around being personal and behind closed doors; is that not the point of having single person bathrooms within the home? For children who have not yet mastered control over their excretory functions, parents are often made to feel shame for “failing” to teach them and children are shamed in not being able to master it.
While this lack of mastery does prove a problem in society today where there are designated areas to perform such functions, namely the bathroom and not the bedroom, it is where this societal standard comes from that sparks interest. Is it because of this societal standard and negative perception of excretory function that things such as private bathrooms and behaviors such as using the left hand to clean oneself arose, or is it because of the development of such things that the perception of such functions developed? For either, why is that so?
In any case, while I agree that poop is an odd topic to talk about among friends, it is the waste matter itself that is dirty, not the talking of it. I do not think that poop and poop-related topics should be taboo as it is today, within reason. That is, I do not want to be hearing about bowel movements while I’m eating dinner, but admitting that one poops or that they have to should not be something they should be shy or ashamed to say, if only among friends. We all know that it happens, and it’s natural. Why must we treat it like it’s not?

Citations:
1. https://www.msu.edu/~jdowell/miner.html

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